Prefer to defer. A growing number of couples take a quick trip right after the ceremony and a more elaborate one six months later. This saves the stress of planning two big events at the same time.

Don’t get scammed. Beware of “honeymoon specials.” Often, the only thing “special” is a heavy markup and cheap champagne.

Dress the part. Don’t just pack shorts and T shirts. Bring sexy clothes your spouse will love: strappy dresses or a crisp suit and tie.