You might send a text to let your partner know you’re thinking of them or to plan when you’re going to see them next.
You might say, “I like to text a lot to stay in touch, but I get if that’s not what you like to do. How many messages are you comfortable sending and receiving every day?”
You can text each other about things you have in common. [4] X Expert Source Judith Gottesman, MSWMatchmaker & Dating Coach Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
If only one of you is leading the conversation, then it can start to feel one-sided.
If your partner only sends one-word responses or hasn’t responded in a few days, then there’s a chance they may not be as into you. You can ask them about how they feel directly if you want to know for sure. People’s time is valuable. So it is better not to mislead each other into thinking that you are interested or open when you are not. [7] X Expert Source Judith Gottesman, MSWMatchmaker & Dating Coach Expert Interview. 19 October 2021.
