Cancer needs to be shown that you are the real deal. In order to get the ball rolling, you’ll need to give it a push first. So grab your white horse and get to trotting. Cancer, in all its dynamic glory, is worth it.
Cancer is a very physically affectionate sign. Complement your relationship with small touches, hugs, and subtle – yet significant – displays of affection. Warm them up to your touch. They’ll love to reciprocate. [1] X Expert Source Stina GarbisPsychic Astrologer Expert Interview. 14 February 2022.
Never ask them out in public, as this will make them feel nervous. Ask them out in private. Invite them on a casual, yet fun, date. Nothing with too much pressure or too many stigmas. Just because someone is a Cancer doesn’t mean they can’t have fun. Try taking them to the beach or swimming pool, since this is a water sign.
Cancers, if they feel comfortable, will be direct with you. They need you to be direct with them, too! If you’re presenting an image around them or trying to be mysterious, they will not be having it. They’re super good at reading people, so don’t even think about hiding your emotions!
Talk to them about your family. Let him or her know that you value yours and are a family man/woman. They’ll take solace in knowing that you two are of like minds. Family is very important to them and nothing will ever change that.
When it comes to getting them in bed, they may be a bit vanilla. More romantic and sensual than spicy and exotic. But if you get them to trust you, they will be willing to open up their world. As long as you show them it’s safe!
This is probably Cancer’s main drawback. It can be hard to crack their shell. But if you’re willing to put in the work, it can be totally worth it. You’ll find a soft, sensitive core that will put you above everyone and everything else.
Let them take care of you when you’re sick. Talk to them about a problem when one pops up. Ask them their advice for an issue at work or with your friends. Heck, let them cook you dinner! Pretty good trade, huh?
This isn’t to say that they’re clingy. While they can be, it’s so genuine it’s hard to hold it against them. They just want to be around you and show you how much they care. It’s almost admirable. If only everyone loved like a Cancer can!
They will not tolerate a temper on your behalf. If you get angry or upset at the little things, they’ll think you’re not being rational and seeing the big picture. If you get too angry at them, they’ll think you don’t care. They can be quite sensitive when they feel vulnerable.
If you don’t mean what you say, they’ll probably see through it anyway and deem you a liar. While you may not view it as lying, they will. So choose your words wisely. Cancer will remember what you say!
They are very complex and can be quite fragile. Upset a Cancer and they’ll be upset for days. When they feel safe and loved they are incredibly successful, wonderful human beings. When they feel vulnerable, they shut down and clam up. It’s up to you to draw out the greatness inside them.
