Some great scents to try include flower-based aromas, like gardenia, lavender, or jasmine.
For example, if you’re greeting him, you could say, “It’s great to see you again,” and place a hand on his arm.
If you don’t get the chance to talk one on one, get in touch with him by text or email.
If you’re asking out a Cancer man you’ve just met, keep it casual by saying, “It was great to meet you last night. We have such a similar taste in books! Do you want to meet up for coffee sometime and give me some recommendations?” If you’re want to go out with a Cancer man you’ve known for a while, say something like, “I haven’t seen you around the office for a while! Would you like to grab coffee sometime and catch up?”
For example, don’t set up dates two days in a row or immediately invite him over to your place. Avoid asking him personal questions right off the bat. Let him open up to you in his own time. You’ll love how romantic and compassionate he’ll be!
Cancer men love and are proud of their homes. Compliment him on his place and show him that you love spending time there with him. A Cancer man will still love to go out and be social, but home is his place to recharge and relax. He’ll love that you want to spend time with him there.
For example, avoid snapping if a car cuts in front of you, or complaining about the service at a restaurant. Instead, take a deep breath and let it go. Your calm reaction to a small annoyance is a big plus to a Cancer man.
Once you show your own vulnerabilities, a Cancer man will feel safe to begin doing so in return.
Say, for example, “I love you so much, but I need a little space to make my own decisions. ”
If you aren’t close to your family, be honest about it. Say, for example, “My family and I don’t get along very well. It’s a big regret of mine. I’d love to be closer to my parents and siblings. ” Show him that you’re still open to being a part other families, like his. If you are close to your family, emphasize it. Tell funny stories about your parents and siblings and talk about how you love to get together with them.
You could say, for example, “I’m so glad you worked on the air conditioning the other day! But now the air coming out is always freezing and it won’t turn off, so I’m freezing! Would you mind helping again?” Cancer men will often retreat into their “shells” when they feel threatened, and won’t open up to you at all. Speak softly and keep a hand on his arm to reassure him that everything is fine.
It won’t be a deal breaker if you feel differently, or if you or he can’t have children. You can discuss ways to channel this tendency by getting pets, spending lots of time with young relatives, or even adopting.
Sit down with him and calmly tell him how you feel. Chances are he’s picked up on some of the same feelings and signals but hasn’t wanted to bring them up and risk hurting you.
