For instance, if you mention your height or you say, “Only tall guys!” many guys may figure you don’t want to date them and move on, even great guys. The same is also true in real life. Don’t dismiss a guy who’s striking up a conversation with you just because he’s an inch or two shorter.
Start by thinking about why you’re finding it hard to be with a shorter guy. Does he make you feel too large? Are you embarrassed to be taller? Spend some time exploring your feelings. Try to change your thinking. Being shorter than a guy doesn’t make you more feminine. It doesn’t make you a giant to be taller than your boyfriend. Only you can decide if you feel feminine (if that’s what you want) or unfeminine. Spend some time affirming yourself in the mirror. You could say, “I love the soft wave of my hair. " Building your confidence this way can help you get over some of your insecurities.
Remind yourself that him being shorter than you doesn’t change anything, vise verse.
Of course, once you’re dating someone, you may decide you want to even out your heights a bit, but that is totally up to you.
