Your aim is to be the friend that stands out. Aquarians (not to be confused with aquariums) want something special. Something that can captivate them. They know better than to judge a book by its cover, so they’ll need to read you first. Let them get absorbed in your pages.
Ask him questions! Get curious about what he’s up to. Is he writing a song? Turning his basement into a veritable spy facility? Painting a mural on the side of the school? Be interested! And if you can add your skills into the equation, too, all the better.
Aquarians are just about interested in everything. So don’t worry about what you can talk about to impress him. Whatever you’re passionate about should be what you engage him on. He’ll love seeing your zest for life.
When it comes to you, do your own thing. Wear whatever clothes you feel like. Act on a whim. Don’t be afraid to be too loud or too reserved or too different. Who wants to be vanilla anyway?
When it comes to you, do your own thing. Wear whatever clothes you feel like. Act on a whim. Don’t be afraid to be too loud or too reserved or too different. Who wants to be vanilla anyway?
Let him know that you are cool and casual. Be a little detached. Nothing is a big deal with you. That lack of stress and drama is something Aquarians definitely are attracted to. That way when he does ask you out, he knows you won’t freak out one way or another.
Your relationship, at least in the beginning stages, is all about enjoying each other and having fun. And there is nothing wrong with that. If you want to go to the chapel after 5 dates, calm it down. There can be time for that later.
Don’t be afraid to go for the shock factor. It’s almost impossible to shock an Aquarius, so make it a personal challenge to do so! Suggest doing some crazy things – chocolate covered grasshoppers, anyone?
Don’t worry about offending their principles. They love hearing others’ opinions, even if they don’t agree with their own. So long as you have an opinion and a reason to stand behind it, they’ll respect what you have to say. As far as the signs go, they’re one of the best, most diplomatic arguers and conversationalists.
One of the benefits of dating an Aquarius? They can teach you. If you don’t know thing one about photography, playing the piano, or whatever it is your Aquarius does well, have him show you the ropes. You’ll stand on your own two feet eventually, but in the meantime, let him wrap his arms around you while you both click the buttons or pound the ivories.
If you’re having a fight, explain how you’re feeling in the most reasonable of terms. Remove yourself from you for a bit and take a more objective stance. Instead of saying, “Oh my gosh!!, why did you use the last of the toilet paper and not tell me?!” say, “I was very inconvenienced by not having any toilet paper and could’ve avoided the situation if you had told me. " He’ll respond much more promptly.
The only thing you can really do is to talk about it. Don’t jump to any conclusions and be as tactful as possible. A simple, “Hey, I’ve noticed a change in your behavior recently” might be enough for him to ‘fess up. And definitely don’t freak out yourself!
This by no means he won’t be faithful or loyal. That has nothing to do with it. It simply means that he needs to feel that he’s his own person and is free to do as he pleases. Trust that “as he pleases” is the behavior of a good boyfriend!
On the same token, he probably won’t display emotion on a grand scale, either – both positive and negative. So when you think he’ll be super excited about something, know that he just may be somewhere deep inside – he’s just not showing it.
Some people find it difficult to allow the other person this sense of control. Don’t think of it like this! You’re simply enjoying yourself. You both are. Why would that need to end? Don’t worry about the long-term. He’s not! After all, you only have today. So live it up, have fun, and have fun with your dynamic, fascinating, intriguing water bearer.
